I saw you that day

That day 

I saw you that day,

You were coming,

Back then I found anything can be loved,

That day I knew when my heart flutter,

How it feels like, liking someone, But I couldn't help it, Because I solemnly hate physics, Then looking at your wrist watch, I hope a day will come, When we'll together see the skys, You'll amuse by seeing the stars, And I'll by seeing your eyes.

Ripping the sun rays,

Shining in a denim,

Touching your hair the wind blew,

Annoyed you took a halt there,

Caressing your hair slowly,

You looked at your shoe pair,

A shocking face threw,

You were being late,

But I was falling in you,

Again I saw that night,

Crescent moon light kissing thou,

My heart just skipped a beat,

When you held my hand and said "Let's go", We were walking in the same road,

But our destination made us separate,

Still I was not worried knowing the fact,

That I was being late,

Even that day when,

It was heavily pouring,

You were dipped in water, But I still found you charming,

You'll find everything better,

I want to be the book,

You always held beyond limits,

 

  @kirti__243 

@psychology.ofmind 

i hate you but

I hate you but 

All along I hated you

For all the promises

You made and failed to do.

I wonder from time to time

That I was really silly to

Believe you were all mine.

I was on the edge of letting you go

But who knows destiny has

Other plans to throw.

Coincidentally we crossed

Our path again.

I saw you and my heart sank

Without wasting a second

I turned away.

Still you acknowledged loudly

From the back.

I can’t afford to be weak

So I greeted back with that 

Fake smile on my face.

You passed from my side without

Even enquiring how was I?

While here my silly little heart

Was waiting that at least you should

Explain all your lies.

I too moved on thinking someday

It’s going to happen anyhow.

But your love was so cruel.

In spite of all of that

You still gave me such a hard time

Sitting in front or beside

Me all the time.

Did you really wanna be with me?

Or examining my patience giving me

All those trial and tribulations

From time to time.

I skipped many days to avoid your face.

B'cos to stop the pain, I know

It’s better to part away.

Time flew away and so did the love

You were there but not like before

To afflict me anymore.

I never understood you quite well

You needed space and still

Wanted to hold on

Interpreted from all the messages

You had sent all along.

I ignored it all bcoz I had nothing

To do with u anymore.

One day you called again and again

Even when I didn't receive 

You had guts to call my friends

And asked them to call me

To at least receive his call

As you had something

Important to say.

I convinced myself that

No matter what my heart says

My mind is not going to surrender again.

So I called him and asked

What’s the matter in that

Strange voice of mine.

Without greeting he told

Me to return all that stuff

That belongs to him.

As expected he really changed a lot!

And it’s a fact I accepted a long ago.

Soon I realised

It’s better to let him go with

An open heart this time.

While returning the stuff you told me

It’s the only excuse to meet me.

I just pretended to be ignorant

Until he taunts me

It’s good to see me more

Happy with someone else.

I understood he was talking

About my old friend that moved

Into the town few months back.

I replied so why was he being

Jealous when he is only the one

Who turned away.

Out of nowhere when

I saw into his eyes

His eyes were full of tears.

And with those eyes you told me

How much you loved me

And only me while doubting

It’s not the same for me

I was just quite to hear

All that you had to say.

He admitted his mistake and stated

All his personal reasons

He was being that way.

Continuing all along he tried

To explain but the problems

Were holding him back.

At last you said you can’t tolerate

Anyone by my side so you started

To sit in front or beside.

Complaining why I were

So ignorant all the time. 

He sweared how much he cared

Spying at me all the time

And told I should have known how

Much I meant to him.

I interrupted him to say

It’s good to hear what you had to say

Now it’s time for me to go away.

I wished him best with his life a head

Stating lets be friends if we

Crossed our path again.

Deep inside knowing I can’t give

Love another chance to kill me again.

 there is something sometimes we want to be together with that person who is not with you and who is not value you really but not with them it's also gives you happiness that there is no longer to hurt you okkk 

So god have a better plan than what you are planning for yourself 

Keep shining 

I trust you 

Your worth 

And you are deserving for better than this 😊❤️

     By psychology of mind

how break up feels like

How does break up feels like 

 Top of the list when it's comes to mental health concern

So after depression , anxiety if there is something 

The tops on the list is  relationship concerns

What break up feels like 

The reason of talking about the break up I thought that's the most difficult for anyone who is suffering or dealing with break up and in that they are not able to understand how they are exactly feel like ....

I really don't know how break up feels like but one of my friend I saw him when he had a breakup 

Who dealing with the relationship problems 

One day he came to me and

The first thing he told me that his chest actually pain 

The break up had just happened and he had actually physical pain he said he crying for some days ,he feels like worthless since the break up happen 

And he had not been eating ever ense

he looked at me and he asked me do you think I am making all of this can a break up lead to all of this 

The answer to all of these yes break up can lead all of these

Breakup when they happen that can affect physically , mentally, emotionally and multiple ways 

What one needs to remember is how the break up happens

In very few cases 

Break up is mutual and amicable that's okay in that also sometimes for a after few we feels like hurting and than just moved on wih this feeling  

Most of cases one who really wants break up and one who really wants to work upon a relationship 

Otherwise break up happens in very strange ways like bitrate and there somebody who has costed  someone and their parental pressure

 one of them feeling they are checked out completely mentally and emotionally there could be many a  reasons 

There is something what led to the break up is what decides the intensity what a break up looks like 

About how people react is proven its something like when a break up happens the body reacts in a manner is similar way to how body reacts when you trying to give up a drug addiction which clearly make sense 

Because if you are dating someone ,you have been a long enough time there is a intimate bond formed for a years which healing itself and now to let go ....

The body would end up reacting with withdrawal like  symptoms 

So the physical symptoms can couse weight loss and gain 

It could lead the tightness in chest 

It could lead to palpitation  for some breathlessness , not being able to sleep 

And in for some cases the immunity drops

They may have headache don't seem to go or fever

Which has lasted for days

Some of the emotional reactions to a break up is lot of time when you have not been prepared for it 

It's feels like numbness ...happening

Trust me feeling like Numb it's pretty normal it's just your body want to adjust with this feeling and wants to feel normal 

And there is guilt / lonelines because our mind  reminds ourselves when used to be together hanging out with each other , feeling worthless when passed through those beautiful memories that time it's hurts, deep inside pain is feeling comes all over again 

And social media also remind and pop about the person what we trying to avoid to reminds like facebook book memories ,pictures ...

This things will haunting when you badly trying to avoid such things 

There is so many things  mentally , psychology , physically , emotionally  we feel in break 

But there is only way to recover ourself 

With --

Initial acceptance - This can feel more like surrender at first. Finally giving in to the terms of the breakup. Overtime this will change. While the pain may still be present you can see the relationship more clearly, accepting each person's role in the relationship, the good and the bad.

 Hope - THE BEST STAGE! You see a picture of your ex, you don’t feel so much anymore. You go out with a friend and realise you are enjoying yourself (not just tolerating it like you had been). You can feel it, YOU ARE MOVING ON.

These stages are not set in stone. They are just the current conceptualisation of grief post break up. It can’t tell you how you will respond. Also, its not necessarily linear. People go in and out of phases and sometimes round in circles. However, its a good start when thinking about how you are feeling and why you might be feeling it.

Furthermore, when you date someone for a while you incorporate them into your sense of identity. Following a break up you can feel confused about who you are. A literal piece of your identity has been torn from you. So don’t be surprised if you feel like this. Recovering will involve reconnecting with, and rebuilding your personal identity.

What you can do to help - the traditional suggestions

Surround yourself with loved ones. You don’t have to talk or be good company. Friends and family reconnect us with ourselves. They remind us we are lovable. They cause a release of endorphins (feel good hormones), and at the moment this can only be a good thing.

If there is no-one you feel you can talk to, write it down. Journal about your emotions. Research shows significant positive effects of journaling during times of challenge. It doesn’t have to be pretty. It doesn’t even have to make sense. Start with… ‘today I felt’ or ‘when …(insert event) happened I felt’. Then just let it flow. Whatever words and thoughts come up. Write hard (or soft, however you feel) for 20 minutes. Finish it with three positive sentences to yourself. Something soothing. Something you have noticed about yourself that's a strength. Words of encouragement. Then re-read it and tear it up. OR don’t!

Be kind to yourself. Give yourself time. Try not to set dates or timelines for your recovery. Timelines will only make you feel worse if you don’t ‘snap’ out of it in the way you hoped.

Get active. This could mean using exercise to trigger endorphins and metabolise stress hormones (see this post for more information). It could mean scheduling your day around the patterns you see arising. For example, if you know that you feel worst in the mornings, go for a walk to get out of the house when you wake up. Meet someone. If you can’t sleep, make sure you are busy during the day and keep a book or crossword next to your bed at night. 

Notice self-criticism. Notice any time you blame yourself, list your shortcomings, call yourself names or recall rejections. Doing this is like taking a hammer to a broken limb. Your brain is already running on a survival response. This only activates that further. When this happens think about what you would say to your friend. Say this to yourself instead. You could even write a letter as if to a friend in this situation. Then read it.

Learn how to self soothe. See these two articles for self soothing tips: one and two.

Avoid the things that you know make you feel worse. Such as checking your ex's social media or walking past their place repeatedly.

Set boundaries. If your ex keeps calling you or won’t go away. Assertively state that the relationship is over and you need time apart to heal.

The rebound  - The less conventional route 

It’s the question we have all thought about and on some occasions we have done more than think about - Should you get under another to get over your ex?

Legend says no. Google this. Psychologists almost unanimously agree that this is a bad idea. The traditional belief being that you will transfer your feelings for the ex onto the next. Making you imagine you feel more for this new squeeze than is real. Expectation is therefore that if you get hurt, it will be doubly bad.

Another fear for this is that you will use the new relationship as a form of revenge. An action that will foster your feelings of hurt and add more negativity to the split.

However…

What if i told you that research does not support this? That there is actually evidence to the contrary? Would you race out to your nearest bar, grab your dating apps?

The research team that investigated this found that rapid engagement in a new relationship did not correlate with negative outcome. Instead it lead to increased reports of wellbeing and self-esteem. The people who engaged in rebound relationships were not only more likely to be further along the path to detachment from their ex, but they also felt more desirable and more sure of their sense of identity than those who did not engage in a rebound.  However, feelings of desire for revenge were the same across both groups (rebound did not change this!).

The researchers reasoned that the positive findings could have occured due to the rebound relationships meaning minimised disruption to social lives, less time spent worrying about the meaning of the breakup and the link the breakup had to their personal worth.

Now… I don’t think the take home message from this is go find yourself a rebound. I think the take home message is that as long as you surround yourself (from the moment of, or shortly after, the breakup) with people who make you feel good, remind you that you are desirable, fun and worthwhile. The ones that keep you busy and enaged… then your self esteem will be buoyed and you will be fine (or you will get back to fine more quickly).

That’s it 

For anyone living through a break up right now… I hope you are doing ok. I hope you have a good support network and people to turn to. You are going to be fine, it just sucks (understatement) right now.

Fun fact… in the long run, personal growth is commonly associated with break ups: including increased independence, healthier behaviours, more active social lives, better relationships with others. So, maybe your friends and family were right. Maybe it will be ok.

Take care of yourself 

There is one thing I want to tell you 

People will come and go 

What's matters it's you 

You are important for yourself make yourself happier untill you are    

             By psychology of mind

no one can fake mental illness

No one can Fake A Mental Illness

- They Fake Being 'Okay:

- - They smile when going through hell

- They say "I'm busy" when having a mental breakdown.

- - They joke and make others laugh because they know what it's like to feel nothing. 

- They empower others in their low moments because they know what it's like to feel worthless 

- - They work hard and uphold their responsibilities only to collapse when they get home. 

-- sometimes they get nervous about what's going on but still they don't show

- They always care for others because they know what it's like to struggle in silence.

Often their biggest fear is being a burden so if someone does reach out, please don't dismiss them for attention seeking. It's because they really need support. 

It's okk we are a human 

--- it's ok to have a mentaldown, 

Please just don't unpack and live there 

Cry it out and then refocus on where you are headed 

You know what some people are just they wanted to feel really "okay" 

Not pretending .. what they are doing right now

 There is something good about those  people who are suffering from mental illness

 They are not able to see people suffer the way the do

As the great Mahatma Gandhi said to the world, “Do or Die”, life is always a do or die situation. Every moment and every second count. It decides our present and our present actions decide our future. Life is not always easy. It is different for each and everyone living in this world.

Everybody struggles with their own hardships and hurdles. These hardships are the defining factors of one’s life. They shape a person into what they are. They always come unexpected and leave an unchangeable mark in our lives.

Our daily lives are filled with inspirational stories about hard times. Hard times a person go through serve as the root cause for their motivation and inspiration in their life. Their stories never fail to amaze and inspire millions of people.

   Be kind

           Be humble 

               Might be today is not yours 

                       But tomorrow you can make it

                            I trust you😊 

       By psychology of mind

                                               

self concerned

A story of madhav

People these days are becoming so self-concerned that, they don’t even give a second thought of minimizing others’ problems or worries; at the same time maximizing the amount of joy in the society.

Madhav, a young man from a small town of Orissa (now Odisha) lived with his parents and brothers. He faced lots of financial hurdles in completing his education. He graduated in the year 1880 and got a government job in the Department of Forest, Titlagarh (in Orissa) with a monthly salary of Rs. 1500/-.

On the first day of the job, Madhav looked like a gentleman dressed in a white shirt and black trouser with his shoulder-length hair combed neatly. While walking down the stairs of Titlagarh railway station he met with a beggar who was paralyzed below the waist but above the waist, he resembled the famous actor Rajesh Khanna. He asked Madhav for some help. Madhav very cordially smiled and replied, “Brother, today our conditions are similar. Today is the first day of my job and I don’t have any money to help you. But here, keep my address and come to me on the first day of next month and I will surely help you” On hearing this, the beggar said, “Sir, is money everything in this world? I know my status doesn’t deserve it, but would you like to become my friend?” The beggar’s name was Phuman. Madhav wholeheartedly accepted his friendship.

Madhav stayed nearby a cinema hall in Titlagarh, where Phuman too earned for his livelihood. During their free time, they shared each other’s’ life incidents. Phuman earned Rs. 15-17 in a week and sent all the money to his old parents staying in the village, except for a rupee. Phuman spent that rupee for gambling.

Madhav’s colleagues didn’t like him, because he befriended a beggar. But Madhav seems to have no regrets and their friendship grew stronger with time.

Some years later, while Madhav was walking back home, he saw Phuman has fallen on the road, unconscious. Madhav rushed him to the hospital where it was found that Phuman had Peptic Ulcer. Its treatment would cost around Rs. 5000/- and Madhav didn’t have such a huge amount. Bewildered, Madhav tried controlling his emotions and stabilizing his heart because when one is agitated, he never finds the right path. 

The next day, Madhav decided to use his only weapons, his knowledge and willpower to help his friend recover. He wrote a letter describing Phuman’s current situation and asking people to contribute any amount of money for his treatment. Daily two hours before his office time, he with Phuman went to the people and asked for help. Madhav, a well-educated and a gentleman started begging just to help his friend. This showed how considerate he was.

After two months, Madhav managed to collect just Rs. 1250, but did not give up hope. The next day he did not go for collection as he was assigned an official visit to the district sub-collector and his team. After the meeting, the sub-collector admired Madhav’s way of planning and working. He was also aware of Madhav’s social work of helping the beggar and appreciated him a lot for this. Fortunately, the sub-collector was the member of The Lions & Rotary club, a non-political organization that is dedicated to helping needy people. He was on the toe ready to help Madhav and Phuman.

People should work and act keeping the wellness of the society in mind and not just try proving themselves as the best. One, who has enough potential and power like Madhav, should always try to help weak and needy people like Phuman. The influence of such generous actions will always bring peace and happiness in their lives and ultimately to the world.

we totally know and understand we can't help everyone and everytime but atleast we can help sometimes atleast one time ,if you are capable then don't ignore to help someone no one knows about the future ..............!!

     @kirti__243

@psychology.ofmind

                             By psychologyof mind

loyalty is faith and faith is important

Loyalty is faith and faith is important right 

Loyalty is faith and faith is important right 

Everyone wants loyalty in relationship and with everything ...

But what is loyalty  no one wants to know 

Yes we don't even understand what is loyalty 

Loyalty is not about pretending,focusing only on perticular thing, about cheating 

Have many a questions I thought everyone have there own definition about loyalty 

For example in relationship loyalty is about only focusing on one person ohhh not exactly but not cheating on each other but you know what pretending is also not loyalty , not valuing each other it's also not loyalty .... having no faith between in also not loyalty 

So what's left there nothing 

If I would say without loyalty relationship or nothing exist even our life goal also  doesn't exist so what would you say 

Loyalty meaning in hindi is nistha which means faith and faith is everything because if you don't know why you have faith on someone that's not loyalty ..

If you have the reason why you have faith there is no pretending 

I don't know why people brittle the relationship 

Whyyy...

No one wants to know we  just blame everytime and everyone ,But the reason is loyalty 

If someone is feeling insecure ,not valuing feeling there is just pretending they are feeling like hell that time and this is the worst feeling ever 

Soo don't focus on other things make sure you are loyal and loyal towards  life goals also because if you don't faith on your goals and don't have reason why you keep it you won't succeed .....

Where you are not able to find loyalty just stop yourself and convenience yourself that's not for you , you are a deserving person  have faith on your self just because  you are a loyal  and a amazing person ☺️☺️ getting so don't blame yourself if someone is not loyal

Hindi-" apna har kam nishta purvak karoge tabhi zindagi mai saflta prapt hogi chahe jivan ki ladai mai ya kisi rishte ki ladai mai nishta ek ahm bhumika nibhata hai or agar hum nishta se palan nhi karte ho toh kitna bhi jor laga lo haar milti hi hai " 

""O sinless one! Two kinds of disciplines in this world were set forth by Me in times of yore – for the Samkhyas the discipline of knowledge (Jnana-nishtha), and for the yogins,

read this Check this out: Tried and True, Love and Loyalty: A Story of the Great Reb... https://www.amazon.in/dp/1528365054/ref=cm_sw_r_wa_awdb_imm_0T14RS9MM8FT5GRA80HV

                         Bypsychology.ofmind

   @kirti__243

@psychology.ofmind

enjoy your company

Just stop yourself to being alone 

Yea just need to stop here because however and how many relationship you make doesn't make  yourself happier untill you didn't make effort for yourself but there is one thing if your relation with yourself is not good damn you can't make anyone happy so just let it be 

Take it easy life is not about to being harsh for everything just take it easy sometimes might not important to being harsh for everything and everytime 

  Just stop your yourself to being alone because sometimes you are not ready to do such things at that time 

   

@psychology.of mind

psychology of mind

Let's get freee and build mind for positivity 

  @psychology.ofmind

fimenism

“Turn down the volume of your negative inner voice and create a nurturing inner voice to take its place. When you make a mistake, forgive yourself, learn from it, and move on instead of obsessing about it. Equally important, don’t allow anyone else to dwell on your mistakes or shortcomings or to expect perfection from you.”

― @kirti__243

The only person who can truly forgive you, is you. If we keep dwelling on our mistakes we will never let ourselves move on, it’s about growth and evolution, not obsession and self punishment.

There will be people in your life who will try and hold you as a prisoner of your past, this is because THEY are prisoners of THEIR pasts – it has nothing to do with YOU. They simply need someone to sit on the other end of their emotionally abusive see-saw in order to make it go up and down, but you don’t have to play.

Say goodbye and step away!

Your future needs you FOCUSED, not stuck in the playground of your past.

Stay Strong ♥️

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the last step

The last step is not the last 

At first glance, the title may give an indication that the topic refers to a series of  last step that we try to cross progressively in order to reach an intended goal. If that is so there must be a number of steps involved, each step contributing its own value but the last is playing a crucial role to achieve target if the last step is going to decide how you had played the role  addition because of which we will be able to reach the goal. In other words, no two steps can be alike and must necessarily result in positive value addition. But then how can the first step be the last step and how the last step is make a history? Doesn’t it contradict the whole principle of the life cycle of activity we may undertake in order to achieve something in time? In the philosophical world that is how things happen and we cannot consider them as a contradiction at all. J Krishnamurti says that is how it happens with respect to the ‘Self Realization’ and beyond.

According to J Krishnamurti, anything that is a product of time is dangerous since for the mind that is trying to ‘become something’ or ‘achieve something’ other than ‘what is’ looks for time naturally and the same time will become a means of escape for it from achieving its intended goal. For every small progress to be made the mind tries to take time without knowing whether the time is a necessary factor or not. Probably because of this reason J Krishnamurti rejected the time and made the first step the last step too. So, we must understand the first step totally since it constitutes the last step and the last step will no need to make first step again in addition like we all do due to psychological pressure and in  emotional but after the realisation that's step is not a stepping point but if the last step is the step of the goal is like first step also.

As we know already,our life experiences may gets you in some misunderstanding ,you getting stuck in your thoughts , comparison , societal pressure but how  long it's been taking executing to the last step and our last step will be the end of misunderstanding  and  leading you with the real life of steps that cheerup you to make your thoughts valuabe and all thoughts originate from our memory that stores information gathered through life experience and inheritance. So the ability to comprehend something is limited. But the egoistic mind doesn’t get satisfied with its limited ability and hence tries to buy time constantly towards achieving its intended goal. With time effort will be involved and the mind may not know that the effort could be futile. Either the ambition to achieve something great or the fear of losing something else in the event of a failure to achieve may compel the mind to stay on the course of time forever. This could lead to an illusion also where the mind says it is progressing always while the end goal could be unreachable.

In the religious or the spiritual world man has been trying to comprehend God, Truth or whatever we might call it, which is immeasurable and incomprehensible. When we say it is ‘immeasurable’ how can the limited thought try to comprehend it? The limitation is due to the conditioning of the mind that would have existed for millions of years of man’s existence. The result of the conditioning is the individual consciousness that has its own opinions, conclusions, feelings, emotions, etc., which all eventually operate during the process of judgement by the mind. Hence whatever judgement is done could be incorrect or incomplete.

Same is true with the understanding of the ‘immeasurable’ but the mind always tries to reach at a conclusion because there is a sense of comfort, satisfaction, fulfilment and so on in any conclusion. This is nothing but an escape from the reality, truth. When the mind reaches a conclusion it may stop further enquiry and hence the truth remains deluded to it because our series of step leads you to the last step of your journey . In other words, a mind that is already having a known field of knowledge with which it always operates cannot possibly perceive the truth. So, if one wants to perceive the truth his/her mind must be totally free from all conditioning, which is nothing but staying in a silent observation where there is no identification, justification or condemnation whatsoever. Such a mind will always be watchful of every movement of thought, its actions, and the consequences of the actions and so on, trying to understand totally and learning from it. Such an understanding must be of the “Self’, the “I”, the “Me” or the “Centre” since without understanding it all that it produces as thoughts will be distorted. Hence understanding the “Self” forms the first step towards  your last step to perceiving the truth of your life.

Best of luck for your jouney ....!!! 

 

@Psychology, of mind

         Kirti sharma 

empowerment is empowerment that's not by a gender empowerment

empowerment is empowerment that's not by a gender empowerment 

 empowerment = nation empowerment  it's wrong 

Infact thoughts empowerment is equals to nation empowerment 

empowerment define as  is the degree of autonomy and self-determination in people and in communities. This enables them to represent their interests in a responsible and self-determined way, acting on their own authority.

Well I thought now everyone is clear why and we all need as empower ourselves either a men or women 

 

The fight to change mindsets must happen every day, and not be a show of tokenism one day in the year

Why we always only talk about women empowerment really it's needed and to whom we want to teach them 

Not getting it with the name of women empowerment what we are doing to showing or telling the people yes women's needs special attention huuh no we don't need that 

Because it will not worth us we just want and everyone should only work on the thoughts empowerment , mentality empowerment creating opportunities for all kind of genders either a men,women or transgender 

Don't manipulate us we understood 

That what we need actually is growing us by the thoughts 

         @psychology.ofmind

magic of words

I think thoughts will change you and your life also.....

 because the power of thoughts can beat your capacity and capabilities and can make you enthusiastic about what you want to change in your life

 so just work on your thoughts no one can beat you ,

You are the strongest in your own presence   

      @psychology.of mind 

respect every living being

Respect every living being

Once upon a time, there lived a farmer and his wife in a small village. They used to grow plants and vegetables from their garden and sell them. They use the money they get every day for their daily and family needs.on a fine morning, the farmer got sick and he said his wife to take care of the plants by watering them, but his wife did not listen to that and she didn’t water the plants properly.

Two days later the farmer got well and went to the garden and saw then all the plants except a few died. Due to that, he had a very little amount of vegetables to sell so he only got a little money which was not even enough for their family expenses. This problem is all because of his wife so he taught his wife that we should respect each and every living creature on the earth because we also too much depend on every living being we should care them just not because we need or dependent on it remember this is life cycle and nature's rule.

         

       @psychology.of mind